Baby Development
Frequently Asked Questions
What is emotional attachment?
How can I build a healthy emotional attachment with my baby?
What is tummy time?
How can I help my baby enjoy tummy time?
When should I start reading books to my baby?
What should I do if I have concerns about my baby’s development?
What should I do if I don’t feel connected to my baby?
What is emotional attachment?
A healthy emotional attachment is when you and your baby become bonded into a close and connected relationship. When your baby is attached to you in this healthy way, she or he feels safe, secure, and protected on physical, emotional, and mental levels. Attachment between you and your baby occurs gradually over time, through day‑to‑day actions and routines.
How can I build a healthy emotional attachment with my baby?
- Listen and try to understand your baby's cues about what he or she needs and wants.
- Protect and respond to her or him in a loving way.
- Respond to him or her as quickly as you can.
- Be consistent.
What is tummy time?
Tummy time is when you lay your baby on her stomach or side when he or she is awake. You can put your baby on the floor, on a safe firm surface, on your lap, or on your chest for tummy time. Your baby needs supervised tummy time several times a day because it:
- prevents your baby from getting flat area on its head called positional plagiocephaly
- makes the muscles of your baby’s neck, back, and arms stronger
- helps your baby learn to roll and crawl
- supports your baby’s overall development
How can I help my baby enjoy tummy time?
- Start tummy time when your baby is a newborn.
- Put your baby on her or his tummy after each diaper change. Add one minute of tummy time each day. If your baby gets very upset, increase the time more slowly.
- Talk and sing to your baby. Try to comfort your baby.
- Give your baby a massage on his or her back, arms, or legs. Gently touch or stroke your baby.
- Give your baby interesting things to look at, such as brightly coloured toys or a mirror. Get down on the floor so your baby can see your face.
- You can also roll up a towel and put it under your baby’s chest with your baby’s arms propped up in front of her or him to give support. At first put your hand under your baby’s chin to support the head until your baby is strong enough to do it by his‑ or herself.
- Remember: It is safest to put your baby on his or her back to sleep. This is very important!
When should I start reading books to my baby?
It is never too early to start reading books. Even newborns will benefit from listening to books. Hearing your words helps your baby develop language.
What should I do if I have concerns about my baby’s development?
If you have any concerns about your baby’s development or interaction with you, contact your health care provider or public health nurse to get advice.
What should I do if I don’t feel connected to my baby?
If you don’t feel connected to your baby or you are feeling depressed, talk to your health care provider. Some women experience postpartum depression after the birth of a baby. For more information about postpartum depression, click here.
